From: LoveFraud
by Quinn Pierce
The Perpetual Victim
I don’t know how he does it. It’s a skill he continues to practice
and perfect, I suppose. What’s astonishing is his ability to twist any
situation- no matter how absurd- into something where he can paint
himself as the victim.
Anyone who was even remotely involved in our lives last year would
know that my ex-husband reached a new level of vindictive, hurtful
behavior. He manipulated every resource he could access including
doctors, courts, school systems, and child services in two states. It
was such a forceful and constant barrage of attacks that I didn’t even
have time to collect my thoughts before responding.
And that was his goal all along.
Keeping You Off-Balance
The favorite and most commonly used strategy of my ex-husband is the
surprise attack. He will always do his best to catch me off-guard, or
corner me at in-opportune times when I’m distracted or not prepared for
what he is doing.
He preys on vulnerability and indecisiveness. It’s a tactic that has
always proven successful- especially with me. What he continues to
fail to understand is that while he is incapable of changing, growing,
or healing, that is just what his children and I have been doing.
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